So enjoying this series. In this one a guy is found crucified in a church.
4/5
I enjoyed the setting and the mystery, although there were a couple of things that didn't quite work for me.
One detail I struggled with was Freddie visiting Polly in her bedroom while they were staying at someone else's stately home, even sitting in there eating with her. They were "engaged", but still unmarried, and it just felt surprisingly relaxed for the period. Perhaps I'm being overly conservative on behalf of 1940s Britain, but it kept pulling me out of the story!
I listened to the audiobook and thought the narrator was good overall. At times, though, the slightly sing-song delivery, particularly when a character was uncertain or questioning something, started to grate on me.
Still, a sweet and enjoyable cosy mystery.
3/5 ⭐⭐⭐
I think this might be my favourite book of the year so far.
I genuinely couldn't put it down.
The beginning caused me a huge amount of angst as Ciara tried to navigate leaving her emotionally abusive husband. I was rooting for her throughout and became increasingly frustrated with Ryan and his manipulation and control.
The characters felt incredibly real, and I was completely invested in what happened to Ciara and her children. It's beautifully written, compelling and, at times, deeply uncomfortable.
There were also some wonderful observations about family, love and ageing. This one, when Ciara is describing her mother, particularly stayed with me:
"Is this the final act of love, refusing to see someone ageing?"
Absolutely loved it.
5/5 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
I don't usually enjoy short stories, so I wasn't quite sure what to expect from this memoir, but I really enjoyed it.
The short vignettes give you wonderful glimpses into different moments in the author's life. Some are genuinely funny, while others are incredibly sad and moving.
I also really enjoyed the insight into a culture and upbringing different from my own. Through the stories about family, traditions and everyday life, you get a very personal glimpse into the author's Indian-Muslim heritage and the world she grew up in.
Together, the stories build a lovely, heartfelt picture of a life, a family and a particular time and place.
A thoroughly enjoyable listen.
10 key learnings from Stolen Focus by Johann Hari
1. OUR LOSS OF FOCUS IS NOT SIMPLY A PERSONAL FAILURE
We live in an environment that is increasingly designed to distract us. Improving our attention therefore requires more than simply telling ourselves to concentrate harder.
2. MULTITASKING IS LARGELY A MYTH
What we call multitasking is usually rapid switching between tasks. Every switch has a cognitive cost, making us slower, less accurate and less able to think deeply.
3. TECHNOLOGY IS DELIBERATELY DESIGNED TO CAPTURE OUR ATTENTION
Notifications, infinite scrolling, recommendations and other features are designed to keep us engaged. Our attention has commercial value, which means some of the world's most sophisticated technology is competing for it.
4. DEEP FOCUS NEEDS UNINTERRUPTED TIME
We are capable of entering a state of "flow", where we become completely absorbed in something meaningful and sufficiently challenging. The task needs to stretch us enough to hold our attention, without being so difficult that we become overwhelmed. Constant interruptions make reaching and maintaining this state much harder.
5. BOREDOM AND MIND-WANDERING ARE VALUABLE
We do not need to fill every spare moment with stimulation. Allowing our minds to wander helps us process experiences, make connections, solve problems and think creatively.
6. SLEEP IS ESSENTIAL FOR ATTENTION
Sleep deprivation damages concentration, memory, decision-making and reaction time. Severe sleep deprivation can impair our functioning to a degree comparable with alcohol intoxication. Research has found that being awake for around 17 to 19 hours can produce impairment comparable with, and on some measures worse than, a blood alcohol concentration of 0.05%.
7. HARI'S TECHNOLOGY DETOX SHOWED HOW ATTENTION CAN RECOVER
During three months without a smartphone or internet in Provincetown, Hari found that his concentration, reading, sleep and ability to let his mind wander improved. Removing constant digital stimulation gave his attention room to return.
8. CHILDREN NEED INDEPENDENT, UNSTRUCTURED PLAY
Children learn problem-solving, negotiation, creativity, independence and how to assess risk by playing without constant adult supervision. Fear, including parental fears about kidnapping and safety, has contributed to children having much less freedom to explore and figure things out for themselves.
9. READING BOOKS TRAINS SUSTAINED ATTENTION
Reading requires us to stay with one idea or story for an extended period. It exercises a slower and deeper form of concentration than constantly scrolling, clicking and skimming information.
10. WE CANNOT SOLVE THE ATTENTION CRISIS THROUGH INDIVIDUAL WILLPOWER ALONE
Turning off notifications and putting our phones away can help, but Hari's larger argument is that many of the forces damaging our attention are systemic. Protecting attention requires changes both in our own behaviour and in the environments and technologies surrounding us.
MY BIGGEST TAKEAWAY
Protecting our attention isn't only about eliminating distractions. We also need to deliberately create space for uninterrupted thought, boredom, reading, play and simply doing nothing.
4/5
Very sweet story.
A dynamic journalist and lawyers paths cross. Initially they don't like each other, they then fall in love. Sweet.
Don't have to think too hard with this one.
4/5
3.8/5
But, there are pockets of such sadness.
Long and short of it, we need to live every day.
3.8/5
This is a heartbreaking and deeply confronting memoir. What happened to Kate Price is horrific, and I have enormous respect for her courage in sharing such a personal story. By telling it, she shines a light on an issue that deserves far more attention and understanding.
That said, I didn't particularly enjoy the audiobook. The narrator's delivery felt very staccato and, to me, conveyed constant anger. Given the subject matter, that anger is entirely understandable, but listening to it for hours became emotionally exhausting and made it difficult for me to stay engaged.
The book is often recommended to readers who enjoyed Educated. While both are powerful memoirs about overcoming extraordinary adversity, Educated resonated with me far more. I found its storytelling more immersive and emotionally nuanced, whereas this audiobook left me feeling more drained than connected.
This is an important book, and I admire Kate Price immensely for having the strength to write it. My reservation is not with her story, but with my experience of the audiobook narration.
Not a fan of tennis, but am a fan of biographies.
Biggest surprise, Andre Agassi does not lik tennis!
I really liked how his none denominational pastor described God to him. He didn't have a good relationship with his dad, and the pastor said that God is totally the opposite of his dad.
Was married to Brooke Shields and later to Stephi Graf.
4/5
This is the first in the series. I enjoy Scandinavian writing. Personally would have preferred a narrator with Scandinavian accent.
Tricky to get to grips and remember all the names. Will read second book and see how it goes.
3/5
Another Kassie Kasselman investigation. Again many names, many twists and turns. I thought I was reading them in order, but realised I had skipped a few when I was confused about him marrying Amalia that I had never heard of.
4/5
I know I need to declutter. So this was a bit of motivation and procrastination to get there.
It's ok. Narrator a bit condescending. Nothing really new, but good reminder to get decluttering.
3/5
Hectic memoir of Masaji Ishikawa. He and his family relocated from Japan to North Korea under false pretences in the 50/60's. The struggles that they went through is horrendous. Very sad.
4/5
Part of the Bennie Grissel series. In this one, Bennie falls off the wagon :/
It is also about wine farmers and illegal bottling in Stellenbosch and, an app that helps create alibis for people who cheat.
4/5
Fairly entertaining. Homeless man starts helping private investigators. He has conversations with his dog. Sweet. 3.8/5
I was initially a bit sceptical whether this would be a book I would enjoy, as it opened with a lesbian sex scene. Fortunately, the story was not overly explicit and actually developed into a really good read. I became quite fond of the characters.
Petro inherits a garage from her grandad and befriends Arno, who lives with cognitive challenges after his mother tried to kill him as a baby.
It is written the way Afrikaans people actually think and speak, which made the characters feel authentic.
4/5
What a sad story. Not particularly well written, a bit all over the place.
Mandri Sutherland was a very good narrator.
3/5
Ek het hierdie boek ongelooflik geniet. Ek het na die oudioboek geluister en kon elke dag nie wag om verder te luister nie. Dit was werklik baie goed, al was dit op plekke ’n klein bietjie langdradig.
Wat my die meeste geraak het, en nogal laat nadink het, is hoe maklik hierdie storie my eie lewe kon gewees het as ek ander besluite geneem het. As ek byvoorbeeld besluit het om met MB te trou. Hendrik in die verhaal het my sterk aan hom herinner. MB het my gelukkig nooit fisies seergemaak nie, maar die jaloesie en daardie stiltes… ek onthou hoe hy my ’n hele naweek geïgnoreer het oor iets so klein soos ’n pakkie sop wat ek vergeet het.
Dit laat mens besef hoe fyn die lyn soms is tussen twee heeltemal verskillende lewenspaaie. Ek is net ongelooflik dankbaar vir hoe dinge uiteindelik uitgewerk het.
Die verteller van die oudioboek was ook uitstekend.
4.8/5
I figured out the murderer.
*Spoiler below*
It was the lecturer.
Soos dit voor op die boek sê: Fiksie met 'n boodskap.
Ek geniet Susan Coetzer se skryfstyl.
Hierdie is die tweede boek in die reeks, die eerste was Oros vir die Siel wat ek ook geniet het. Nooit besef Susan het so baie boeke gekryf nie.
Dit raak effens preachy en bietjie té vir my teen die einde, maar ek het dit nogtans geniet.
Isabella is gebore en tot die ouderdom van 9 in Tanzanië dan trek hulle Suid Afrika toe. Sy trou met Herman, 'n suksesvolle sielkundige wat twee affairs het. Dit is haar reis om haarself en haar man te vergewe en mees bekangrik 'n reis om die Here weer te ontdoek.
Wat my pla, wie het die honde op gepas terwyl hulle op vakansie was.
Andersins, baie sweet, en ek sien uit vir Tjoklits vir die Siel wanneer die tyd reg is dat ek daardie boek vind.
4/5
Third in the Stranger Times series. Absolutely love the wonderful dry British humour. The one where Hannah infiltrates the Winona Pincher Institute (cult).
The narrator is absolutely brilliant
4.8/5
Narrator 10/10